I Use Drugs while Having Sex (PnP)

Using recreational drugs before or during sex may increase the risk of picking up or passing on HIV and other STIs. This is because using recreational drugs can lower your inhibitions and make it more likely you will take risks with your sexual health.

If you are going to be in a situation where drugs and sex are likely to be available, carry condoms with you and let your sex partner know you intend to use them. Keep some spares handy. Plan a safer sex strategy. For example, “Before anal sex starts to happen, I will reach for condoms.”

Sometimes the hardest time to maintain your safe sex strategy is during periods of coming down, so keeping condoms handy at all times throughout the party experience is important.

If you realize things are getting hot and you don’t have any condoms handy, ask your partner or anyone else for some, consider lower risk sexual activities like oral sex or find someone who has condoms.

Reduce Your Risk

Condoms

The best way to reduce the risk of picking up or passing on HIV is to use condoms when during anal sex, particularly with guys whose HIV status you don’t know or are unsure of or with guys whose status is not the same as yours.

When using condoms, it is a good idea to use lube. Take your time; do not rush it! Rushed or aggressive anal sex can increase the likelihood of tears and other problems.

Testing

Knowing your HIV status and that of your partner will allow you to make decisions about how to best reduce sexual risk-taking (this requires regular HIV testing).

Limit Your Partners

Another way to reduce your risk is to limit your number of partners, or establish friends-with-benefits or regular partners who you communicate with and trust.

Semen

Sometimes guys forget that semen can be on their hands or faces. Try not to get semen in your eyes. Using someone else’s semen as lube when you masturbate can also be risky. If a finger goes in your anus, make sure it doesn’t have someone else’s semen on it.

 Harm Reduction (may be less risky, but not risk-free)

Guys reduce the spread of HIV in several other ways:

  • having less risky sex (hand jobs, oral sex, etc.)
  • sero-sorting (looking for partners with the same HIV status)
  • not ejaculating inside each other (pulling out or withdrawal)
  • ensuring that both partners are free of other STIs by getting tested

Treatment

For poz guys, proper treatment adherence (taking medication regularly) impacts viral load, which also lowers the risk of passing on HIV.

Undetectable Viral Load

The BC Centre for Excellence in HIV/AIDS and other HIV/AIDS research institutions have found that the risk of HIV transmission for sero-discordant couples (one is positive, the other is negative) is very low if the HIV-positive partner is on treatment, has an undetectable viral load and is free of STIs.